5. Fashion – HARAJUKU
Japanese girls put a lot of effort into their fashion. You will never see them not ‘’ dolled up» even when running basic errands.
So if she suggests you two wear the same pink flannel, go for it! Nobody in Harajuku will think you’re funny.
6. Obsession with non-Asian people
If you ple and you happen to be the only non-Asian person among applicants, be SURE that you will be their first choice.
Not because of your diploma, major or experience, but simply because you are quite different, let’s even dare to say, exotic to them.
You can be the last choice of your dream girl in your town, but the moment you land in Japan, all Japanese girls’ eyes are going to be on YOU! And it’s pretty awesome.
7. Take care of her
In Japan, women never pay for anything when they are with a man (both male friends or romantic partners). That’s just not the case.
Japanese women make homemade chocolate for their boyfriends and give it to them as a sign of love and admiration.
Also, in Japan, it is common that couples celebrate certain days in their relationship, such as the 22nd day, the 200th day, etc.
In case you are not from Japan, and that’s not common in your culture, make sure you remember these days and give her something small.
8. Provider vs Caregiver
Of course, that’s not always the case. There are also females in Japan who like to be independent and are strong feminists. But usually, that’s rarely a case.
She will, in exchange, provide you with love, a warm meal and anything you can desire from a woman. Treat her like a queen, and she’ll treat you even better.
Japanese women love foreign guys because, from all these movies and dramas, they see foreign men as a strong role in their life. They need a dominant man!
The first thing you should know about Japan is that there are not so many people fluent in English (let alone any other language).
That’s mainly because they think that kids in schools should primarily know the languages of surrounding countries and then expand their knowledge further on.
If you’re not a fan of dating apps, you should try to get to know someone and teach each other your native languages.
It shows them that you care and that you have a deeper interest in their culture as a whole than understanding just a few phrases of anime or manga that you love.
Keep in mind that there are not many people out there who are willing to go that far for sweeping the Japanese woman of her feet.
Once she sees that you put so much effort into trying your best to understand her, she’ll know you’re a keeper.
Not to mention that this gives you a better chance of being on good terms with her family members since you’ll be able to talk to them directly and not looking in your phone and trying to translate what they said.
Learning the Japanese language is your go-to ticket! You are going to stand out from the crowd, and not by your ethnicity but also your will and persistence.
New opportunities concerning work will also be a good side effect of you mastering Japanese, but also it will make dating a Japanese woman a lot easier and pleasurable.